So here's the thing my mother-in-law again requested me to be her facebook friend, this is like the 3rd or 4th time this time she left a personal message that says "Good Morning want to be my facebook friend? xxoo"

The answer is no I don't want to be your facebook friend BUT how do I answer, in the past I have just hit ingnore BUT I feel that if you left a message I need to answer so it has just been sitting there for a week...

The thing is I don't want people I don't like and who don't like me on my facebook, I like to say whatever I want to say and well I accept her as my friend then I won't be able to do that.
BUT I feel like I need to answer the message, I can make a list of things that has happened that got us to this spot BUT even if I was to make a list I know the reply I will get. She will say "well you know I didn't mean it like that" or she will say "you took that the wrong way" or the best "I was just joking"... And I don't believe any of that crap!! When you don't invite someone to thanksgiving dinner and say well there are 6 of you and that is a lot and I didn't think we would have enough room after invited the whole extended family that means something... or telling Rick after we had been married for 10 years that she never did like any girl he brought home BUT there was still time, that says something... or when you say "I am moving to FL to be with my real grandchildren because those kids are my sons wives kids" that means and says something...
And if you didn't mean them then you shouldn't say them.......

So I will NOT be her facebook friend BUT I think I will just leave the request for now and pretend that I didn't see it...

~Eileen~